Marriage is a big deal it is one of the pillars of life.  However, the Emiratis men prefer to get marry from outside country.  Two causes which are high cost of dowries and number of conditions and requirements. Also two effects which are the large number of spinsterhood and negative impact on the Arabic language.
   
There are many reasons why Emiratis men prefer to marry from outside country.  One of the main reasons is   high cost of dowries.  The Emiratis women’s ask for a lot of many when they get marry to prepare for the wedding.  The dowries can up to 200,000 DH and more it depends on the family.  Which make it very difficult for the men to collect such amount of money this also cause the men a lot of trouble if they took the money from the bank or someone.   The other reasons are number of conditions and requirements.  For example, the braid may ask for more than one party which will require more money for the dinner and some gifts. Another condition the braid may ask that she have her own home and housemaid.  Therefore, the men will reconsider twice before they think to marry a local woman.
   
 These reasons will lead to have two effects.  One, the number of spinsterhood will increase.  This will make the women also to consider marrying someone from outside their country which might cause to lose their identity. Also their children will not have the emirate national and lose the right to have free education and healthcare.  Marrying from another country will have negative impact on the Arabic language. Children spend a lot of their time with their mothers; therefore they take her language and can’t speak a proper Arabic. This also can cause some trouble for them in the school because the children might tease them for not knowing how to speak Arabic.
   
In conclusion, there are reasons why men consider marrying a foreigner and these reasons will lead to have negative impact on both gender. My opinion, men should to marry from their country and women should not ask the men to spend a lot of money for the wedding.  

A few words of advice
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ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older,
their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, "I love you", mean it.
FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams
don't have much.
NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only
way to live life completely.
TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't want to
answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements
involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone sneeze.
SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self;
Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take
immediate steps to correct it.
TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will
hear it in your voice.
TWENTY ONE. Spend some time alone.

Reminders
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Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don't go for looks; they can deceive.
Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Find the one that makes your heart smile.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!
Dream what you want to dream;
go where you want to go;
be what you want to be,
because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.
Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies ahead for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.
Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

A tour in Gulf Flower !!

A tour in Gulf Flower !!

One day our group decided to visit the enormous

 company of Gulf Flower. We saw a lot of experts 

 from all disciplines such as Beauty, Fashion and Star

 news. They hired excellent expert to show a good

 image about the magazine. However, they used

 many varieties of media like their show at ad channel

 and radio commercials. In the tour our guide was

 talking about the troubles that they face, the problem

 that attracts me was the nagging of the parents from

 their children’s obesity and they want article that

 talks about some solutions to end their children

 miserable life. A good thing that should persuade the children..

The expert worked hard to post many reports that

 talks about obesity and exercises to help. They

 thought about using the obesity commercials as a

 product placement to make their heading reports talk

 about obesity so that leads them popularity.  

SEE YOU NEXT TIME =P

Today I read an essay about (how learner can help themselves).  After finishing it I recognize that I belong to two types of learning style which are sensing and sequential.  First why I am sensing?  Because I can remember and understand the information best if I can see it how it contacts to the real world.  And I don’t like the abstract and theoretical materials.  The second style is sequential.  If I have something new I would like to go for it step by step  to find what is the relationship between factors.

Do not be afraid!!!!!!

Strange funny AD!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbCsgxblGg4&feature=watch_response

shopaholic

Before 50 years ago you could not  listen there are people who crazy and addicted to shopping.  But now a days you will hear it a lot and it consider as a serious problem.  Shopaholic means uncontrollable  urge to shop and psychology disorder.  This essay will discusses the problem of shopaholic people and there are two possible solution for it.  One is asking for counseling and the other one is looking for another activity.

The problem of shopaholic is caused by psychological or mental disorder.  And it has two serious effects which are having a high debt and depression.  Mental disorders are generally defined by a combination of how a person feels, acts, thinks or perceives.  The shopaholic girls like to buy things even she do not wont it  because she feel happy and better after she shop.  And if she see another girl looking better than her she will have low self-stem.  Also  if she did not shop she will feel depress.  However, the first effect is  debt.  This means the people who shops a lot have a high mount of bell and may be they are required  from banks.  The second effect is depression and it mean “an illness that involves the body, mood, and thoughts, that affects the way a person eats and sleeps, the way one feels about oneself, and the way one thinks about things” (reading).

Shopaholic has two possible solution.  The first one is  counseling and it may will help  to change her idea about herself and about shopping.  Moreover, she can also ask for a shopping plan.  The other solution is looking for another activity.  According to DR.Fell  since the shopaholic one feel that she wont to shop she should to do another thing far from shopping mall and shopping market.  Such as skiing, camping, swimming.

This essay has described the problem of shopaholic.  It caused by mental illness.  The effects are debt and depression.  and the solutions was asking for counseling and the other one is looking for another activity.  In my opinion, these people should ask for a help from beginning to not have a serious problem and to be easier to  reform.

done by : Mariam Almazrouie

201102354

Hi crazy girls ^^

I brought for you a video about a bolyood shopaholic girl !!

Enjoy   it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PWXG9rEk6vQ

so there are 3 Q which are: 

1. What is she addicted to ? 
2. How much dollars  did she spent in two years?
3. How did she feel  after shopping ?
4. Why she think that she should to shop a lot ?
5. What is her parents mistake?
6. How older she is?

done by : Mariam Almazrouie

201102354